Chapter 808

"Quiet, that Wang Yingming really doesn't deserve you. Think about it, you are a graduate of Tsinghua University, and now you work in the National Museum of history, and you are a national cadre who eats imperial food. What about him? What is he? It's just a poor cook who can't be on the top of the table. Just like him, he doesn't deserve to carry your shoes. How can he marry you? "

In an exhibition hall of the National Museum of history, Xiu Hongmei, Xiaojing's mother, stands opposite Xiaojing, persuading her.

Since Xiao Jing's grandmother died, Xiu Hongmei has been in contact with her.

At the beginning, Xiaojing was not willing to communicate with her, but later she saw that her mother really cared about her, never asked her for this or that, and even often made delicious food for her.

Slowly, she began to accept her mother.

After all, when her mother left her, she had no choice. Even if her mother didn't have much contact with her these years, it was because grandma didn't like her mother and didn't allow her to have contact with her mother.

Now, grandma is gone, and no one is stopping her from communicating with her mother. So after her mother tries to make friends with her for some time, Xiaojing puts down her mustard and walks around with her mother.

Since the two girls have contacts, the chaos can't hide from Ms. Xiu Hongmei.

When Xiu Hongmei learned that her daughter, who graduated from Tsinghua University, had found a man from the Northeast countryside. The man had no job, had no money, and had little culture in her stomach, she almost collapsed. She shook her head like a rattle drum and opposed Xiaojing's association with chaos.

However, chaos has long been recognized by Xiaojing. According to her mother, Xiaojing will not waver.

Xiuhongmei is just as stubborn as Xiaojing. Seeing that her daughter doesn't listen to her, she keeps persuading her every day. She even stops at the unit to persuade her. She has a posture of never giving up if she doesn't reach her goal.

Today, as soon as Xiaojing went to work, her mother came back and began to talk.

"Quiet, mom knows that you met him in the most difficult time, and that he helped you a lot, but there are many ways to thank someone for repaying someone, so there's no need to commit yourself? Marriage is a matter of life. If you find such a person, you can't even cry in the future... "

Xiaojing listen to her mother say these words, listen to the ear almost cocoon son, wait for her mother to finish, seriously said to her mother.

"Mom, I'm not looking for Yingming to repay my kindness. He is really good to me, and I really love him. Love doesn't matter high or low, as long as two people really love each other."

"How can we do that? If you just fall in love, it's ok if you don't stay at home. But if you get married and get along with each other day and night, you will know how painful it will be for two people to live together when they grow up in different environments. Isn't mom the best example? "

"At the beginning, my mother thought that he was honest and good-natured. She wanted to get married. Even if she didn't have a common language and hobbies, she could still live well. However, when she really lived together, she knew how wrong she was and how ill educated people were, I don't want to think about the countless small problems and shortcomings in his daily life. It's just his serious small-scale peasant thought and his character of being penny pinching. It's enough to make my mother's life unbearable. Really, if it wasn't for the sake of you and your brother and sister, I wouldn't want to live any more... "

After her husband committed suicide by jumping into the river, Ms. Xiu Hongmei married the elder brother of a worker in a kettle factory. When she was introduced, she thought that the workers were honest and honest. Only after she married her husband did she know how stupid and naive she was.

Her husband looks honest on the surface, but in fact he is full of male chauvinism. He thinks that women should listen to men, and it is natural for women to take care of men at home.

Therefore, it is the same requirement for his highly educated wife.

Ms. Xiu Hongmei is a university teacher with new ideas in her mind. How can she stand such a request from her husband?

When two people's ideas conflict, her husband beat her because of the man's physical advantage

Ms. Xiu Hongmei is very angry. In the past, Xiaojing's father and he always respected each other and loved each other. When looking for the worker's husband, she didn't expect him to be as knowledgeable as her ex husband, but at least she could treat her well, love her and take care of her.

But I didn't expect that I had been beaten in the past few months.

In a hurry, Ms. Xiu Hongmei thought of divorce, but at this time she found that she was pregnant.

At that time, abortion technology was not as mature as it is now. There were often abortion deaths. Xiu Hongmei didn't want to beat her child down. In addition, his man knelt down with her to admit his mistake, slapped her face and promised her.

Xiuhongmei thinks that it's not easy for her to get out of the family and get into the family. Her remarriage has already been criticized. Now that she's married for so many days, she's fighting for a divorce. It must be worse for her.

So for a moment, he forgave the man.

However, he and she did not know that men's domestic violence and extramarital affairs are the same, the first time there will be a second time.

The man promised her that in a few months, when she was pregnant in August, because she had a few words of discord with her mother-in-law, he once again touched her.

That time, xiuhongmei gave birth prematurely.

Fortunately, the child was born prematurely and survived.

Xiu Hongmei was beaten in her pregnancy and was beaten to premature delivery. She was really disheartened. She filed for a divorce before she was born.

However, her husband and mother-in-law are tough.

Divorce is OK, but the children belong to their family and have to stay in their home.

Xiu Hongmei has left one child in her mother-in-law's house, and she can't do anything to keep the second child in her mother-in-law's house.

The main reason is that she knows that the first mother-in-law is a kind and cultured person. Even if she leaves her children, she will take good care of her and educate her.

But the second family can't do it. His uneducated husband is a tough guy. He listens to his mother who doesn't run away. If he leaves his children to them, it's not sure whether he can survive. Even if he survives and is raised by them, he will certainly be abandoned.

All helpless, she had to give up the idea of divorce, continue to muddle through the life in that family.

That family is a typical petty citizen family. They are selfish, mean and take advantage of others. They value money more than life

Xiu Hongmei lives in this kind of environment. You can imagine what life she lives and what mood she is in every day.

This kind of marriage of different classes almost destroyed her life, so when she heard that her daughter wanted to find a farmer from the Northeast countryside, she almost collapsed and resolutely opposed Xiaojing and the chaos.