Chapter 738
Sun Yingmei said: "forget it, anyway, I won't stay here long. When the red star starts school, I'll leave. After a few days, I still don't care about her. If I really want to be more serious with her, if I get angry with her, my brother and my brother will talk about it again."
When Han Mingcui heard sun Yingmei's words, she broke in and said, "what can your mother do when you leave? Your brother, sister-in-law, brother, daughter-in-law don't like to see your mother, so your mother can count on you. If you leave again, how can she deal with it alone? "
Sun Yingmei frowned and said, "what's the matter? I don't know. I can't let my children go to school just for her sake. Can I just leave my home? Anyway, my brother and my brother are her own sons. Even if they don't like her any more, they won't give her food or drink, will they
It can be seen that sun Yingmei is not very devoted to her mother, but only to her mother. If it is beyond her ability, or taking care of her mother will affect her normal family life, she will not hesitate to give up her mother.
In fact, sun Yingmei didn't blame her for doing so. Who let me not treat her as a human being?
At the beginning, her parents only saw her brother and younger brother. In their eyes, her daughter was a loser. She was raised to work at home and exchange betrothal gifts for their two sons.
For more than ten years in her mother's family, she didn't wear a good dress or eat a good meal. She was scolded or worked all day, and lived like a slave. It was only after she married Zhang He that she realized that women can still stand up and live with their own ideas and opinions, and live such a happy life
With this contrast, she was even more dissatisfied with her parents.
It is precisely because sun Maowen and his wife did not treat sun Yingmei well that sun Yingmei refuses to treat her mother wholeheartedly.
As far as she is concerned, it's very good that she can come all the way from Heilongjiang Province to take care of my mother for such a long time. It's impossible for her to delay her happy family life to take care of my mother.
Han Mingxiu said: "I remember when your family married your sister-in-law, they spent five or six hundred yuan as a dowry, and they didn't spend too much on marrying your brother-in-law. Since your mother is very good to your sister-in-law and your brother-in-law, how can they treat your mother like that? It's heartless, isn't it
The second aunt was sitting on one side. When she heard Han Mingxiu say this, she turned her lips and said, "even if her mother gives someone a golden mountain, they don't appreciate it! You don't see how her mother treats those two daughters in law. Even Lao Taijun can't be as arrogant as she is. People on both sides of the world can't look down on her. "
When sun Yingmei got married, neither her sister-in-law nor her younger brother's daughter-in-law came in, so she didn't know how she treated her sister-in-law and younger brother's daughter-in-law.
Hearing Han Mingxiu's second aunt say so, sun Yingmei asked curiously: "is my mother too much to my sister-in-law and my brother's daughter-in-law?"
"It's not just too much, it's just ridiculous!"
Han Ergu slapped her mouth and said, "I've lived so long that I've never seen an old woman as mean as your mother. She yells and scolds all day long and treats her daughter-in-law as a mule. She wants to ask her daughter-in-law to work at home all the time."
"What's more, your brother's daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl. Now it's not family planning. Your mother was afraid that your brother's daughter would be broken, so she covered up the little girl she just gave birth to. When someone outside said that she would die after she was born, at that time, your brother's daughter-in-law almost cried to death..."
"You say that if she covers her daughter to death, can people not hate her? Now, don't say it's serving her. She's good if she doesn't eat her meat... "
Sun Yingmei didn't know that her mother had done such a vicious thing. When she heard her "feat", her face turned white.
"Han Gu, did you mistake my mother... How could she do such a cruel thing?"
"That's right, absolutely right. After she killed the child, your brother and daughter-in-law ran to the brigade and said it. For this reason, your mother almost got into the Public Security Bureau. Later, your brother guaranteed that the child really died after her life, and was thrown into the back mountain after her death. Your mother escaped without proof..." the second aunt vowed.
Sun Yingmei still didn't believe her mother could do such a thing. She hesitated and said, "Er Gu, could it be that my brother's daughter-in-law had a fight with my mother and deliberately said that?"
"No way, you didn't see your brother-in-law at that time. She was crazy and her eyes were red. If your mother hadn't really done that, she couldn't have done that and didn't have the courage to sue your mother?"
When Han Mingxiu heard this, he didn't care what sun Yingmei thought, so he said angrily: "according to this, is it true? If it's true, she's really vicious. It's no surprise that her two daughters-in-law treat her like this. Such a vicious elder really doesn't deserve the respect of the younger generation. "
"Who doesn't say yes? Anyway, it's her granddaughter. What do you think she did? " Second aunt said scornfully.
Sun Yingmei said with a white face: "if it's true, it's really too much. If it's me, I have to hate her. I can't blame people for not treating her."
Since she became a mother, sun Yingmei has been very fond of her children. She always feels sad when she hears other people's children knock and touch. Now she hears that her mother has killed her younger brother's girl by herself. She can't help but feel pain. It's so painful
Just then, Gao guangbin began to set the table for dinner in the outer room. Sun Yingmei declined everyone's request and led Zhang Hongxing back with her resentment towards her mother.
After Sun Yingmei left, Han Mingxiu could not help but make complaints about it. "Sun Maowen wife is not a human being, he killed her granddaughter by herself. Her daughter-in-law is also a bear's egg. If she doesn't scratch her, it's her ability. Hum, no wonder she's so sick that she can't get up now. Together, she'll be punished... "
As soon as Han Mingcui saw that her younger sister was so angry, she quickly comforted her and said, "OK, don't be angry. That was several years ago. Besides, she is getting retribution now. Both of her daughters-in-law don't like her, and her son dislikes her. She is so strong that she is now in such a field. I think she must be more miserable than dead now."
"It's right to call her life worse than death. People like her deserve this kind of retribution." Han Mingxiu said angrily.
Sheng Lianfang, the eldest sister of the second aunt's family, said: "I always don't understand what those women who are old women think? Their son and daughter-in-law are a family. Why do they have to get involved in other people's life? If they still have to be the masters of their own family, don't they think that they will grow old one day and fall into the hands of their daughter-in-law? "
Han Mingxiu said: "probably they all believe that their son can stand on their side no matter when! It's a pity that mabao men can work with their mother when their mother is young, but when their mother is old and can't take care of their life, they will all stand in the camp of their daughter-in-law, because those mabao men who are trained by their mother have lost the ability of self-care and self-reliance, and they have to depend on a woman who can take care of them. "
"And those self righteous old women will end up miserable because of their son's defection. Their daughter-in-law will find back the anger they have suffered in their life when they are old. However, it's all they ask for, and it's not worthy of sympathy..."
Han Er Gu grinned and said, "well, this is reasonable. I have to remember it well. I can't get involved in the affairs of my son and daughter-in-law, so that I won't be hated by her daughter-in-law in the future."
Although Han Mingxiu doesn't like her second sister-in-law very much, she agrees with her attitude.
"Er Gu, you're right. People are independent individuals. No matter who wants their lives to be controlled or interfered by others..."
When Han Mingcui heard sun Yingmei's words, she broke in and said, "what can your mother do when you leave? Your brother, sister-in-law, brother, daughter-in-law don't like to see your mother, so your mother can count on you. If you leave again, how can she deal with it alone? "
Sun Yingmei frowned and said, "what's the matter? I don't know. I can't let my children go to school just for her sake. Can I just leave my home? Anyway, my brother and my brother are her own sons. Even if they don't like her any more, they won't give her food or drink, will they
It can be seen that sun Yingmei is not very devoted to her mother, but only to her mother. If it is beyond her ability, or taking care of her mother will affect her normal family life, she will not hesitate to give up her mother.
In fact, sun Yingmei didn't blame her for doing so. Who let me not treat her as a human being?
At the beginning, her parents only saw her brother and younger brother. In their eyes, her daughter was a loser. She was raised to work at home and exchange betrothal gifts for their two sons.
For more than ten years in her mother's family, she didn't wear a good dress or eat a good meal. She was scolded or worked all day, and lived like a slave. It was only after she married Zhang He that she realized that women can still stand up and live with their own ideas and opinions, and live such a happy life
With this contrast, she was even more dissatisfied with her parents.
It is precisely because sun Maowen and his wife did not treat sun Yingmei well that sun Yingmei refuses to treat her mother wholeheartedly.
As far as she is concerned, it's very good that she can come all the way from Heilongjiang Province to take care of my mother for such a long time. It's impossible for her to delay her happy family life to take care of my mother.
Han Mingxiu said: "I remember when your family married your sister-in-law, they spent five or six hundred yuan as a dowry, and they didn't spend too much on marrying your brother-in-law. Since your mother is very good to your sister-in-law and your brother-in-law, how can they treat your mother like that? It's heartless, isn't it
The second aunt was sitting on one side. When she heard Han Mingxiu say this, she turned her lips and said, "even if her mother gives someone a golden mountain, they don't appreciate it! You don't see how her mother treats those two daughters in law. Even Lao Taijun can't be as arrogant as she is. People on both sides of the world can't look down on her. "
When sun Yingmei got married, neither her sister-in-law nor her younger brother's daughter-in-law came in, so she didn't know how she treated her sister-in-law and younger brother's daughter-in-law.
Hearing Han Mingxiu's second aunt say so, sun Yingmei asked curiously: "is my mother too much to my sister-in-law and my brother's daughter-in-law?"
"It's not just too much, it's just ridiculous!"
Han Ergu slapped her mouth and said, "I've lived so long that I've never seen an old woman as mean as your mother. She yells and scolds all day long and treats her daughter-in-law as a mule. She wants to ask her daughter-in-law to work at home all the time."
"What's more, your brother's daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl. Now it's not family planning. Your mother was afraid that your brother's daughter would be broken, so she covered up the little girl she just gave birth to. When someone outside said that she would die after she was born, at that time, your brother's daughter-in-law almost cried to death..."
"You say that if she covers her daughter to death, can people not hate her? Now, don't say it's serving her. She's good if she doesn't eat her meat... "
Sun Yingmei didn't know that her mother had done such a vicious thing. When she heard her "feat", her face turned white.
"Han Gu, did you mistake my mother... How could she do such a cruel thing?"
"That's right, absolutely right. After she killed the child, your brother and daughter-in-law ran to the brigade and said it. For this reason, your mother almost got into the Public Security Bureau. Later, your brother guaranteed that the child really died after her life, and was thrown into the back mountain after her death. Your mother escaped without proof..." the second aunt vowed.
Sun Yingmei still didn't believe her mother could do such a thing. She hesitated and said, "Er Gu, could it be that my brother's daughter-in-law had a fight with my mother and deliberately said that?"
"No way, you didn't see your brother-in-law at that time. She was crazy and her eyes were red. If your mother hadn't really done that, she couldn't have done that and didn't have the courage to sue your mother?"
When Han Mingxiu heard this, he didn't care what sun Yingmei thought, so he said angrily: "according to this, is it true? If it's true, she's really vicious. It's no surprise that her two daughters-in-law treat her like this. Such a vicious elder really doesn't deserve the respect of the younger generation. "
"Who doesn't say yes? Anyway, it's her granddaughter. What do you think she did? " Second aunt said scornfully.
Sun Yingmei said with a white face: "if it's true, it's really too much. If it's me, I have to hate her. I can't blame people for not treating her."
Since she became a mother, sun Yingmei has been very fond of her children. She always feels sad when she hears other people's children knock and touch. Now she hears that her mother has killed her younger brother's girl by herself. She can't help but feel pain. It's so painful
Just then, Gao guangbin began to set the table for dinner in the outer room. Sun Yingmei declined everyone's request and led Zhang Hongxing back with her resentment towards her mother.
After Sun Yingmei left, Han Mingxiu could not help but make complaints about it. "Sun Maowen wife is not a human being, he killed her granddaughter by herself. Her daughter-in-law is also a bear's egg. If she doesn't scratch her, it's her ability. Hum, no wonder she's so sick that she can't get up now. Together, she'll be punished... "
As soon as Han Mingcui saw that her younger sister was so angry, she quickly comforted her and said, "OK, don't be angry. That was several years ago. Besides, she is getting retribution now. Both of her daughters-in-law don't like her, and her son dislikes her. She is so strong that she is now in such a field. I think she must be more miserable than dead now."
"It's right to call her life worse than death. People like her deserve this kind of retribution." Han Mingxiu said angrily.
Sheng Lianfang, the eldest sister of the second aunt's family, said: "I always don't understand what those women who are old women think? Their son and daughter-in-law are a family. Why do they have to get involved in other people's life? If they still have to be the masters of their own family, don't they think that they will grow old one day and fall into the hands of their daughter-in-law? "
Han Mingxiu said: "probably they all believe that their son can stand on their side no matter when! It's a pity that mabao men can work with their mother when their mother is young, but when their mother is old and can't take care of their life, they will all stand in the camp of their daughter-in-law, because those mabao men who are trained by their mother have lost the ability of self-care and self-reliance, and they have to depend on a woman who can take care of them. "
"And those self righteous old women will end up miserable because of their son's defection. Their daughter-in-law will find back the anger they have suffered in their life when they are old. However, it's all they ask for, and it's not worthy of sympathy..."
Han Er Gu grinned and said, "well, this is reasonable. I have to remember it well. I can't get involved in the affairs of my son and daughter-in-law, so that I won't be hated by her daughter-in-law in the future."
Although Han Mingxiu doesn't like her second sister-in-law very much, she agrees with her attitude.
"Er Gu, you're right. People are independent individuals. No matter who wants their lives to be controlled or interfered by others..."