Chapter 1874
Gu Hao didn't expect that this seemingly young non professional teacher would have such a lofty appreciation of his daughter.
In his eyes, small four of those things that he thinks are shortcomings can be infinitely amplified into advantages, which really makes Gu Hao have some doubts and surprise.
How did Tang Ye do it?
How can he so appreciate these shortcomings, but also can say that these shortcomings are advantages, which is clearly the shortcomings.
Is it not a defect that some of the extraordinary behaviors are excessive?
Gu Hao thought deeply and wanted to find the gap.
She looked at the young doctor in front of her in surprise and said, "Miss Tang, these things are not so intuitive advantages in my opinion. I may not be able to be so generous and regard her shortcomings as advantages. Is this a bit blind?"
Children travel thousands of miles, mother worried.
This is the concern of parents all over the world.
She can't help but worry about everything about her child. She just hopes that her daughter can take less detours and do nothing to hurt others or herself.
"I'm a little surprised that Madame Feng said this. Since you don't have any doubts, why do you come to ask me again?" Tang Ye asks softly.
Gu Hao was stunned again. He was stunned.
"Since Mrs. Feng came to ask me, she must be not so confident about her own cognition or her daughter's behavior?"
Tang Ye's words are too much for him to say.
Gu Hao was surprised again and then laughed. "I'm really speechless by your rhetorical question."
Tang Ye also smiles and says: "Madam Feng, in fact, you know very well that your daughter's nature is pure and good, but there are some places that may seem to you to be out of line, but people who are usually conventional may not be able to make a breakthrough."
After a pause, he nodded subconsciously.
It seems to make a lot of sense.
Lin goes on with his topic: "in my opinion, a daughter is different from others everywhere. On the contrary, he has an aggressive spirit. Such a person is more likely to succeed, isn't he? At least in her field
Hearing this, Gu Hao also laughed: "is it like you? But I think you are a genius. My daughter is very smart, but she is not a genius? "
"I'm not a genius. I just have more opportunities to develop my interests than others." Tang Ye smiles. "Mrs. Feng, it's better to give her daughter a spacious space. As far as I know, she just lived in school last night. If Mrs. Feng has no confidence in her education, it's better to let Feng Yihan live in school, at least with a free space to give full play."
This is really said to take care of the heart.
Wind to live in school or go back, this is to take care of worry.
But now it is obvious that Tang Ye has given himself the answer.
Gu chuckled and asked again, "Mr. Tang, do you mean to let the wind and cold live in school next semester?"
"In my opinion, if Mrs. Feng can't really appreciate her children, it's better to let her stay in a place where people appreciate her. At least she will feel very free and grow up free from constraints."
Before Gu Hao said anything, Xiaozhu had already questioned, "Mr. Tang, how can I feel that your words are a little strange. How can my sister not appreciate her daughter? That's the child she gave birth to in October?"
"Not enough to appreciate?" "If you are confident enough to appreciate your children, why come to me? Since looking for me, must be to own education and all aspects of psychology are not so confident? In my opinion, you are not confident enough. It is precisely because the wind is cold that you are confident enough. Of course, I want to appreciate the one who is more confident. "
There seems to be nothing wrong with that.
Xiao Zhu took a look at her sister, but she didn't speak for a long time.
Gu Hao smiles and looks at his watch. It's ten minutes.
Don't want to disturb Tang Ye for too much time, Gu Hao smiles and says: "Mr. Tang, today I come here, the benefits are not shallow, thank you for telling me so much, I will deeply reflect, maybe you are right, I have never really understood my daughter, and I have never appreciated her unconditionally as you said."
Tang Ye also smiles. "Not everyone can do it very few people. You don't have to feel sorry or feel guilty. Most parents in our country, like you, always think that they are very authoritative, but actually they don't know their children."
"Miss Tang said so, I'm really ashamed. Maybe I should really make friends with her."
"Today Mrs. Feng came to see me. I might as well be frank. Ignore a person is very simple, blindly suppress her, ignore her, perfunctory she can, but your child will never stop loving you, but she may stop loving herself
Tang Ye's words deeply hurt Gu Hao's heart, which made her feel very nervous at that moment.This heart on the moment stuffy pain up.
It's a little uncomfortable.
She looks at Tang Ye in surprise, and Tang Ye's eyes also look at Gu Hao, without any evasion. He is frank and clear.
It is such an open pair of eyes, let people see after there are some sad.
Gu Haocai really got some inspiration from this sentence. He thought that he might have done something wrong, at least this way is wrong.
Gu Hao's look is solemn, including Xiao Zhu. For a moment, there is no doubt. The whole person is calm and looks at Tang Ye with a look of great respect. He feels that Tang Ye is really right.
It seems that I really came to this trip today. Not only did my sister come to the right place, but I also benefited a lot.
When the two left, they were obviously much more serious.
Tang Ye just takes them to the door, nods slightly, and then turns to enter the room.
Xiaozhu takes Gu Hao's arm and goes out.
The two sisters did not speak. When they got to the car, Xiao Zhu fastened her seat belt and looked at her sister and asked, "sister, I was really hurt by the words of Miss Tang."
"Is that sentence, your child will never stop loving you, but will she stop loving herself?" Take care of the question.
"Mm-hmm, that's it." Xiaozhu thought for a while and said, "I think it's very reasonable. I may suppress my child too much, which leads to that sometimes he will give up himself when he is not confident. Will Yihan do the same, because the more we talk about her, the more she wants to attract our attention. In fact, this also has certain psychological expression, just like adolescent children rebellious We may have said too much, so she always wants to get your attention and do it on purpose
Gu Hao gave a bitter smile. "Maybe, in a word, I'm a little ashamed and flustered. Maybe Miss Tang is right. The fourth grade is better at school. Let her live in the school. "
"Shall we go to see the fourth grade now?" Xiao Zhu couldn't help asking her sister. "I think it's OK to talk to him at least and tell him to comfort him!"
Gu Hao slightly pondered for a moment, shook his head and said, "no, it's not the time. Maybe he and I need to be quiet for a few days."
"Well, shall we go back now?" Asked Xiao Zhu.
Gu Hao nodded: "let's go home. Go back and think about what Mr. Tang said."
"Well, I must think about it well. Sometimes I can't control my temper and my two children are also a little impatient." Xiaozhu said with a embarrassed smile: "it's really like what Mr. Tang said. No matter how angry I am, they are actually very angry, but in the evening, they will still be obediently leaning by my side and relying on my appearance. I know that he
" now that he realizes it, he should change it now. " Take care of the encouraging words. "It's always the case that everyone should be like this."
"Well."
Gu Hao's hand gently stroked her bulging abdomen, and she was also thinking about what was going on.
It seems that life needs a lot of practice, you need to reflect on what you have done before you can make progress. Otherwise, giving birth to children will make children very burdensome.
In his eyes, small four of those things that he thinks are shortcomings can be infinitely amplified into advantages, which really makes Gu Hao have some doubts and surprise.
How did Tang Ye do it?
How can he so appreciate these shortcomings, but also can say that these shortcomings are advantages, which is clearly the shortcomings.
Is it not a defect that some of the extraordinary behaviors are excessive?
Gu Hao thought deeply and wanted to find the gap.
She looked at the young doctor in front of her in surprise and said, "Miss Tang, these things are not so intuitive advantages in my opinion. I may not be able to be so generous and regard her shortcomings as advantages. Is this a bit blind?"
Children travel thousands of miles, mother worried.
This is the concern of parents all over the world.
She can't help but worry about everything about her child. She just hopes that her daughter can take less detours and do nothing to hurt others or herself.
"I'm a little surprised that Madame Feng said this. Since you don't have any doubts, why do you come to ask me again?" Tang Ye asks softly.
Gu Hao was stunned again. He was stunned.
"Since Mrs. Feng came to ask me, she must be not so confident about her own cognition or her daughter's behavior?"
Tang Ye's words are too much for him to say.
Gu Hao was surprised again and then laughed. "I'm really speechless by your rhetorical question."
Tang Ye also smiles and says: "Madam Feng, in fact, you know very well that your daughter's nature is pure and good, but there are some places that may seem to you to be out of line, but people who are usually conventional may not be able to make a breakthrough."
After a pause, he nodded subconsciously.
It seems to make a lot of sense.
Lin goes on with his topic: "in my opinion, a daughter is different from others everywhere. On the contrary, he has an aggressive spirit. Such a person is more likely to succeed, isn't he? At least in her field
Hearing this, Gu Hao also laughed: "is it like you? But I think you are a genius. My daughter is very smart, but she is not a genius? "
"I'm not a genius. I just have more opportunities to develop my interests than others." Tang Ye smiles. "Mrs. Feng, it's better to give her daughter a spacious space. As far as I know, she just lived in school last night. If Mrs. Feng has no confidence in her education, it's better to let Feng Yihan live in school, at least with a free space to give full play."
This is really said to take care of the heart.
Wind to live in school or go back, this is to take care of worry.
But now it is obvious that Tang Ye has given himself the answer.
Gu chuckled and asked again, "Mr. Tang, do you mean to let the wind and cold live in school next semester?"
"In my opinion, if Mrs. Feng can't really appreciate her children, it's better to let her stay in a place where people appreciate her. At least she will feel very free and grow up free from constraints."
Before Gu Hao said anything, Xiaozhu had already questioned, "Mr. Tang, how can I feel that your words are a little strange. How can my sister not appreciate her daughter? That's the child she gave birth to in October?"
"Not enough to appreciate?" "If you are confident enough to appreciate your children, why come to me? Since looking for me, must be to own education and all aspects of psychology are not so confident? In my opinion, you are not confident enough. It is precisely because the wind is cold that you are confident enough. Of course, I want to appreciate the one who is more confident. "
There seems to be nothing wrong with that.
Xiao Zhu took a look at her sister, but she didn't speak for a long time.
Gu Hao smiles and looks at his watch. It's ten minutes.
Don't want to disturb Tang Ye for too much time, Gu Hao smiles and says: "Mr. Tang, today I come here, the benefits are not shallow, thank you for telling me so much, I will deeply reflect, maybe you are right, I have never really understood my daughter, and I have never appreciated her unconditionally as you said."
Tang Ye also smiles. "Not everyone can do it very few people. You don't have to feel sorry or feel guilty. Most parents in our country, like you, always think that they are very authoritative, but actually they don't know their children."
"Miss Tang said so, I'm really ashamed. Maybe I should really make friends with her."
"Today Mrs. Feng came to see me. I might as well be frank. Ignore a person is very simple, blindly suppress her, ignore her, perfunctory she can, but your child will never stop loving you, but she may stop loving herself
Tang Ye's words deeply hurt Gu Hao's heart, which made her feel very nervous at that moment.This heart on the moment stuffy pain up.
It's a little uncomfortable.
She looks at Tang Ye in surprise, and Tang Ye's eyes also look at Gu Hao, without any evasion. He is frank and clear.
It is such an open pair of eyes, let people see after there are some sad.
Gu Haocai really got some inspiration from this sentence. He thought that he might have done something wrong, at least this way is wrong.
Gu Hao's look is solemn, including Xiao Zhu. For a moment, there is no doubt. The whole person is calm and looks at Tang Ye with a look of great respect. He feels that Tang Ye is really right.
It seems that I really came to this trip today. Not only did my sister come to the right place, but I also benefited a lot.
When the two left, they were obviously much more serious.
Tang Ye just takes them to the door, nods slightly, and then turns to enter the room.
Xiaozhu takes Gu Hao's arm and goes out.
The two sisters did not speak. When they got to the car, Xiao Zhu fastened her seat belt and looked at her sister and asked, "sister, I was really hurt by the words of Miss Tang."
"Is that sentence, your child will never stop loving you, but will she stop loving herself?" Take care of the question.
"Mm-hmm, that's it." Xiaozhu thought for a while and said, "I think it's very reasonable. I may suppress my child too much, which leads to that sometimes he will give up himself when he is not confident. Will Yihan do the same, because the more we talk about her, the more she wants to attract our attention. In fact, this also has certain psychological expression, just like adolescent children rebellious We may have said too much, so she always wants to get your attention and do it on purpose
Gu Hao gave a bitter smile. "Maybe, in a word, I'm a little ashamed and flustered. Maybe Miss Tang is right. The fourth grade is better at school. Let her live in the school. "
"Shall we go to see the fourth grade now?" Xiao Zhu couldn't help asking her sister. "I think it's OK to talk to him at least and tell him to comfort him!"
Gu Hao slightly pondered for a moment, shook his head and said, "no, it's not the time. Maybe he and I need to be quiet for a few days."
"Well, shall we go back now?" Asked Xiao Zhu.
Gu Hao nodded: "let's go home. Go back and think about what Mr. Tang said."
"Well, I must think about it well. Sometimes I can't control my temper and my two children are also a little impatient." Xiaozhu said with a embarrassed smile: "it's really like what Mr. Tang said. No matter how angry I am, they are actually very angry, but in the evening, they will still be obediently leaning by my side and relying on my appearance. I know that he
" now that he realizes it, he should change it now. " Take care of the encouraging words. "It's always the case that everyone should be like this."
"Well."
Gu Hao's hand gently stroked her bulging abdomen, and she was also thinking about what was going on.
It seems that life needs a lot of practice, you need to reflect on what you have done before you can make progress. Otherwise, giving birth to children will make children very burdensome.