Chapter 182
I quickly said: "you don't say that, Xuanxuan didn't pay attention, don't know Jiang Cheng's health is bad, I want to pay attention in the future, two people can still play happily together, Xuanxuan will be more careful in the future, right?"
"Is Xuanxuan willing to play with Jiang Cheng in the future?" Li Wei bent down to look at Xuan Xuan and asked expectantly.
Xuanxuan nodded, "I will pay more attention in the future."
After seeing Jiang Cheng, our family went back.
"It's all my fault. When I was playing with brother Jiang, I pushed him carelessly." On the way home, Xuanxuan also blames himself for his carelessness just now.
"Xuanxuan, it's not your fault. It's just that Jiang Cheng's body is weak. You should be careful when you play with him. Fortunately, this time we're all here, preventing things from developing in a worse direction."
"Well, Xuanxuan is scared today, so don't teach any more." I stopped Perry.
Pei Li has some helplessness, "I know you love your child, but when there is a problem, we still have to explain it to him for the first time. If we just ignore it, Xuanxuan will not know how to deal with it the next time it happens. This is a rare educational opportunity."
"But Xuanxuan is very afraid today. Can't we wait for another day for education?" I argued unconvinced.
As Xuanxuan's mother, I have been raising Xuanxuan all these years. I don't take care of Xuanxuan very well. He is too serious. We should learn from the fighting between children. Xuanxuan is not a sensible person. She never makes trouble when playing with other children before.
Xuanxuan said timidly behind: "Mom, don't blame dad. In fact, I'm very afraid today. I don't know how to deal with it. Dad is right. He taught me, and then I know what to do."
Pei Li glanced at me. "I'm not as sensible as my son."
Seeing that Xuanxuan was willing to listen to Peili, I didn't have much to say. Leaning on the seat, I said, "well, you can talk about it. I'll see what you can say."
Pei Li then said: "Xuanxuan, I ask you, what do you think of when you see brother Jiang in hospital today?"
"Brother Jiang can't touch it casually. Pay attention to it when you play in the future." Xuanxuan said with his little finger.
My son is so sensible, listen to Xuanxuan say so, I smile with pride, "see, in fact Xuanxuan heart all know, you still have to say what education, he is not stupid, these basic common sense or some."
"What else?" Asked Perry.
Xuanxuan thought hard. She couldn't think of it. She looked at me in distress.
I hastily said: "no, Xuanxuan already knows. Is this lesson not enough?"
"Of course, it's not enough. I ask you, what would you do if your parents were not here today, only you and Jiang Cheng were there, and he suddenly fainted?" Asked Perry.
Xuanxuan recalled the scene just now, but he was still a little scared. Li Wei and I were scared by his scream. At that time, Jiang Cheng fell to the ground and convulsed painfully, while Xuanxuan sat down on one side, and she was about to cry, and she didn't know how to deal with it.
"But I'm so scared. Brother Jiang's appearance just now is so frightening." Xuanxuan burst out crying, "I don't know what to do, I'm scared myself."
"Pei Li, Xuanxuan's mood is not easy to calm down. You scared him to cry again. Two children are playing so little. How can the parents not be here? Don't ask him." See Xuan Xuan cry, I immediately distressed unceasingly, quickly comfort Xuan Xuan, "Xuan Xuan don't cry, you have done a great job today."
"You should put his head up for the first time, so that he won't suffocate because of the saliva in his mouth, and then call the hospital first aid phone, tell you clearly where you are and his symptoms, and try to get the rescue time as soon as possible. If we are not here, can you do the two things well?" Said Perry gravely.
Xuan Xuan Leng Leng ground looks at Pei Li.
I'm afraid that adults will be able to do the second thing in this situation. Who would want to cushion people's head to avoid suffocation in such an emergency.
"I know you are a child. Your mother and I won't put you in such a dangerous situation that you need to rely on yourself to save others. But I hope you can have this awareness and have this sense of crisis since you were a child. In this way, you will not lose your mind because of excessive tension in the future, and you will be able to keep a clear mind and be in a panic, Only when you are sober can you save yourself, understand? " Said Perry.
This kind of education is really profound, and I can't say what I can say. Although as a mother, I still love Xuanxuan and can't bear to let Xuanxuan experience such things again, I don't deny that Peili's words are really reasonable. If someone told me this kind of theory when I was a child, I would be very grateful.
In fact, children do not understand anything, but in the early stage, no one guides them to think deeply, to reflect on the consequences of this behavior, so as to establish a correct concept.
"Why don't you talk? Didn't you like to argue with me before? " Perry teased me again.
I hastily and gallantly went forward to beat his leg, "you said great, I am convinced, really powerful."
Pei Li lips Cape a Yang, continue to drive.
Xuanxuan behind also very gallantly said: "Dad is so fierce, can know so much, Xuanxuan must learn from dad."
"I didn't expect that such a clever child of Jiang Cheng suffered from this congenital disease. This disease should be inherited, but his mother didn't have this disease at all. Is it his father who suffered from this disease?" Think of Jiang Cheng lying in the hospital bed thin pain, my heart can not help but mention.
"It's not necessarily that some of the family's genetic diseases are invisible to girls, but become dominant to boys. If Jiang Cheng's mother doesn't have them, it doesn't mean that Jiang Cheng's grandfather and uncle will not." Said Perry.
When I first saw Jiang Cheng in a foreign hospital, he was carrying a big schoolbag and had to do so much homework every day. At that time, I was still thinking about what kind of parents were so sick and wanted their children to learn so much from childhood. Unexpectedly, it was Li Wei.
Moreover, when she was abroad, Li Wei told me that she had someone she liked, but the one she liked liked liked other women. Although she asked herself that she was no worse than that woman, her beloved loved that woman.
I didn't expect that she had such a big child, and the child didn't know whether it was the child of her beloved.
In front of Xuan Xuan's face, I didn't say this to Pei Li. I just closed my eyes.
When he went home, it was too early. Xuanxuan ate a lot at noon and began to feel sleepy in the afternoon. When he got home, he washed and went back to his room for a nap.
Pei Li sat on the sofa in the living room looking at the papers.
Xuanxuan and I promised him to leave after lunch, and the whole family went out to play together. As a result, Xuanxuan wanted to play with Jiang Cheng after lunch, and Peili had to cancel the trip. Originally, there was a romantic night at the hot spring villa. As a result, a family of three was trapped at home. Xuanxuan was comfortable sleeping, and Peili was even more depressed when he finally had a holiday.
"Come on, eat the fruit." I cut the fruit plate and brought it to his mouth carefully.
Pei Li opened his mouth and bit, "don't you sleep?"
"How dare I go without a rest?" I sat next to him, hugged him and gave him a kiss. "Don't be angry. We'll go out next week."
Pei Li hugged me for a moment, then hugged me and said, "in fact, I don't think too much about it. Sometimes I don't go anywhere. As long as we are together, our family will feel at ease. Today, after meeting Jiang Cheng, I feel that I can't let go. Obviously, I don't feel much about his mother. This child is submissive and looks like a sick rabbit, But after knowing that he and I are of the same blood type, I have some pity. "
I feel the same way when he says that.
Every time I see Jiang Cheng so weak and cowardly, I really want to go up and hold him and tell him not to be afraid.
Pei Li and I love our children very much, so Xuanxuan is spoiled by us. All the people around us love Xuanxuan very much. Lu Xingyi plays with Xuanxuan every day and wants to buy all the toys. Jiang Xiaobei is Xuanxuan's godmother directly. She advocates all the snacks Xuanxuan wants and fights with me several times to protect Xuanxuan's right to eat snacks, Jiangnan also made great efforts to make delicious food for Xuanxuan, took him out to play, and popularized a lot of interesting knowledge for him.
All the people who appear in Xuanxuan's life don't take good care of him on May Day, so Xuanxuan lives a sunny life.
And Jiang Cheng, so thin and timid body must suppress a lot of grievances.
You can't laugh when you are happy. You have to eat regularly. You have to learn a lot from childhood. It feels like Li Wei is carving an exquisite object. She wants to make Jiang Cheng outstanding, but she doesn't want to care for him.
"Do you think that because the child's father can't be with her, every time she sees the child, she will feel contradictory. With hatred for the child's father, she will impose it on the child. Because of her arrogance, she won't allow a failed child, so she deliberately teaches him many things, hoping to see his better performance?" I surmised in the arms of Perry.
Pei Li pondered: "this Li Wei's family should not be bad. It seems that she has just bought the house. As a doctor abroad, she can say that she will return home soon after she returns home. She also takes root quickly. A woman with her children can't live without the support of her family if she is so comfortable and fastidious."
I nodded. As soon as Li Wei saw that she was the daughter of a rich family, she was quick in dealing with affairs. She was not afraid to offend others at all. She was straightforward and showed her dissatisfaction directly.
But women who don't need to make a living can spend all their time on their children.
Mother has always been a great career, only thinking about giving, not thinking about return.
In the years when I took care of Xuanxuan, all my bad temper disappeared. Every time I saw Xuanxuan, I would have endless joy in my heart.
"Is Xuanxuan willing to play with Jiang Cheng in the future?" Li Wei bent down to look at Xuan Xuan and asked expectantly.
Xuanxuan nodded, "I will pay more attention in the future."
After seeing Jiang Cheng, our family went back.
"It's all my fault. When I was playing with brother Jiang, I pushed him carelessly." On the way home, Xuanxuan also blames himself for his carelessness just now.
"Xuanxuan, it's not your fault. It's just that Jiang Cheng's body is weak. You should be careful when you play with him. Fortunately, this time we're all here, preventing things from developing in a worse direction."
"Well, Xuanxuan is scared today, so don't teach any more." I stopped Perry.
Pei Li has some helplessness, "I know you love your child, but when there is a problem, we still have to explain it to him for the first time. If we just ignore it, Xuanxuan will not know how to deal with it the next time it happens. This is a rare educational opportunity."
"But Xuanxuan is very afraid today. Can't we wait for another day for education?" I argued unconvinced.
As Xuanxuan's mother, I have been raising Xuanxuan all these years. I don't take care of Xuanxuan very well. He is too serious. We should learn from the fighting between children. Xuanxuan is not a sensible person. She never makes trouble when playing with other children before.
Xuanxuan said timidly behind: "Mom, don't blame dad. In fact, I'm very afraid today. I don't know how to deal with it. Dad is right. He taught me, and then I know what to do."
Pei Li glanced at me. "I'm not as sensible as my son."
Seeing that Xuanxuan was willing to listen to Peili, I didn't have much to say. Leaning on the seat, I said, "well, you can talk about it. I'll see what you can say."
Pei Li then said: "Xuanxuan, I ask you, what do you think of when you see brother Jiang in hospital today?"
"Brother Jiang can't touch it casually. Pay attention to it when you play in the future." Xuanxuan said with his little finger.
My son is so sensible, listen to Xuanxuan say so, I smile with pride, "see, in fact Xuanxuan heart all know, you still have to say what education, he is not stupid, these basic common sense or some."
"What else?" Asked Perry.
Xuanxuan thought hard. She couldn't think of it. She looked at me in distress.
I hastily said: "no, Xuanxuan already knows. Is this lesson not enough?"
"Of course, it's not enough. I ask you, what would you do if your parents were not here today, only you and Jiang Cheng were there, and he suddenly fainted?" Asked Perry.
Xuanxuan recalled the scene just now, but he was still a little scared. Li Wei and I were scared by his scream. At that time, Jiang Cheng fell to the ground and convulsed painfully, while Xuanxuan sat down on one side, and she was about to cry, and she didn't know how to deal with it.
"But I'm so scared. Brother Jiang's appearance just now is so frightening." Xuanxuan burst out crying, "I don't know what to do, I'm scared myself."
"Pei Li, Xuanxuan's mood is not easy to calm down. You scared him to cry again. Two children are playing so little. How can the parents not be here? Don't ask him." See Xuan Xuan cry, I immediately distressed unceasingly, quickly comfort Xuan Xuan, "Xuan Xuan don't cry, you have done a great job today."
"You should put his head up for the first time, so that he won't suffocate because of the saliva in his mouth, and then call the hospital first aid phone, tell you clearly where you are and his symptoms, and try to get the rescue time as soon as possible. If we are not here, can you do the two things well?" Said Perry gravely.
Xuan Xuan Leng Leng ground looks at Pei Li.
I'm afraid that adults will be able to do the second thing in this situation. Who would want to cushion people's head to avoid suffocation in such an emergency.
"I know you are a child. Your mother and I won't put you in such a dangerous situation that you need to rely on yourself to save others. But I hope you can have this awareness and have this sense of crisis since you were a child. In this way, you will not lose your mind because of excessive tension in the future, and you will be able to keep a clear mind and be in a panic, Only when you are sober can you save yourself, understand? " Said Perry.
This kind of education is really profound, and I can't say what I can say. Although as a mother, I still love Xuanxuan and can't bear to let Xuanxuan experience such things again, I don't deny that Peili's words are really reasonable. If someone told me this kind of theory when I was a child, I would be very grateful.
In fact, children do not understand anything, but in the early stage, no one guides them to think deeply, to reflect on the consequences of this behavior, so as to establish a correct concept.
"Why don't you talk? Didn't you like to argue with me before? " Perry teased me again.
I hastily and gallantly went forward to beat his leg, "you said great, I am convinced, really powerful."
Pei Li lips Cape a Yang, continue to drive.
Xuanxuan behind also very gallantly said: "Dad is so fierce, can know so much, Xuanxuan must learn from dad."
"I didn't expect that such a clever child of Jiang Cheng suffered from this congenital disease. This disease should be inherited, but his mother didn't have this disease at all. Is it his father who suffered from this disease?" Think of Jiang Cheng lying in the hospital bed thin pain, my heart can not help but mention.
"It's not necessarily that some of the family's genetic diseases are invisible to girls, but become dominant to boys. If Jiang Cheng's mother doesn't have them, it doesn't mean that Jiang Cheng's grandfather and uncle will not." Said Perry.
When I first saw Jiang Cheng in a foreign hospital, he was carrying a big schoolbag and had to do so much homework every day. At that time, I was still thinking about what kind of parents were so sick and wanted their children to learn so much from childhood. Unexpectedly, it was Li Wei.
Moreover, when she was abroad, Li Wei told me that she had someone she liked, but the one she liked liked liked other women. Although she asked herself that she was no worse than that woman, her beloved loved that woman.
I didn't expect that she had such a big child, and the child didn't know whether it was the child of her beloved.
In front of Xuan Xuan's face, I didn't say this to Pei Li. I just closed my eyes.
When he went home, it was too early. Xuanxuan ate a lot at noon and began to feel sleepy in the afternoon. When he got home, he washed and went back to his room for a nap.
Pei Li sat on the sofa in the living room looking at the papers.
Xuanxuan and I promised him to leave after lunch, and the whole family went out to play together. As a result, Xuanxuan wanted to play with Jiang Cheng after lunch, and Peili had to cancel the trip. Originally, there was a romantic night at the hot spring villa. As a result, a family of three was trapped at home. Xuanxuan was comfortable sleeping, and Peili was even more depressed when he finally had a holiday.
"Come on, eat the fruit." I cut the fruit plate and brought it to his mouth carefully.
Pei Li opened his mouth and bit, "don't you sleep?"
"How dare I go without a rest?" I sat next to him, hugged him and gave him a kiss. "Don't be angry. We'll go out next week."
Pei Li hugged me for a moment, then hugged me and said, "in fact, I don't think too much about it. Sometimes I don't go anywhere. As long as we are together, our family will feel at ease. Today, after meeting Jiang Cheng, I feel that I can't let go. Obviously, I don't feel much about his mother. This child is submissive and looks like a sick rabbit, But after knowing that he and I are of the same blood type, I have some pity. "
I feel the same way when he says that.
Every time I see Jiang Cheng so weak and cowardly, I really want to go up and hold him and tell him not to be afraid.
Pei Li and I love our children very much, so Xuanxuan is spoiled by us. All the people around us love Xuanxuan very much. Lu Xingyi plays with Xuanxuan every day and wants to buy all the toys. Jiang Xiaobei is Xuanxuan's godmother directly. She advocates all the snacks Xuanxuan wants and fights with me several times to protect Xuanxuan's right to eat snacks, Jiangnan also made great efforts to make delicious food for Xuanxuan, took him out to play, and popularized a lot of interesting knowledge for him.
All the people who appear in Xuanxuan's life don't take good care of him on May Day, so Xuanxuan lives a sunny life.
And Jiang Cheng, so thin and timid body must suppress a lot of grievances.
You can't laugh when you are happy. You have to eat regularly. You have to learn a lot from childhood. It feels like Li Wei is carving an exquisite object. She wants to make Jiang Cheng outstanding, but she doesn't want to care for him.
"Do you think that because the child's father can't be with her, every time she sees the child, she will feel contradictory. With hatred for the child's father, she will impose it on the child. Because of her arrogance, she won't allow a failed child, so she deliberately teaches him many things, hoping to see his better performance?" I surmised in the arms of Perry.
Pei Li pondered: "this Li Wei's family should not be bad. It seems that she has just bought the house. As a doctor abroad, she can say that she will return home soon after she returns home. She also takes root quickly. A woman with her children can't live without the support of her family if she is so comfortable and fastidious."
I nodded. As soon as Li Wei saw that she was the daughter of a rich family, she was quick in dealing with affairs. She was not afraid to offend others at all. She was straightforward and showed her dissatisfaction directly.
But women who don't need to make a living can spend all their time on their children.
Mother has always been a great career, only thinking about giving, not thinking about return.
In the years when I took care of Xuanxuan, all my bad temper disappeared. Every time I saw Xuanxuan, I would have endless joy in my heart.