Chapter 838
He is always strict with himself and his family. In such a world, many officials are afraid of their own accidents because of their families. Therefore, they are asking too much of their families.
For his daughter, he is completely all in one, many things feel that he is good for his daughter. In addition, under long-term observation, he is not very good at expressing his feelings. All day long, he just smiles to welcome people, but there is a real sense of smile in this smile. It is estimated that only he knows.
But when he makes up his mind all day long, he always feels that his decision is right, but he never thinks that his decision is wrong at all.
My daughter broke out completely yesterday, which really made her understand that when she grew up, she could not live under his wings all her life. A daughter can't follow his life rhythm all her life. If she wants to have her own life rhythm, she must have the right to decide her own happiness.
What parents can do is to keep the harbor well. When their daughter is confused, they can give him a direction. When her daughter doesn't stay well outside, they can let him go home and have a good rest. They are the backing of their daughter and can make her live her life.
After planning everything for them in advance, it's like the products produced by workers on the assembly line. It's true that he can complete the tasks of his life, but it's hard to say whether his life is wonderful after he has completed the tasks of his life.
What's more, they know how strong their ability is. They can't cover the sky at all. In the future, all kinds of hardships that the child will encounter in his life can't be completely resisted by the knowledge they taught him. They don't have that great ability either.
When the children just finish what they want step by step, they just get the ability they want the children to grow up, and there is no extra ability. Once you encounter some other problems, it will be a complete collapse. It is not true love, but real harm.
Along the way, song Baoguo met many such people. He once met an old leader who arranged his son well. However, after the old leader retired, the son soon faced the challenge of the offspring of the next leaders.
The man who supports his son can support his son when the old leader is in power. Then it is possible to support other people's sons after the old leader retreats to the second tier, and directly let his son also retreat to the second tier.
Song Baoguo really didn't want his daughter to end up like this.
At that time, I'm afraid my daughter will be ruined all her life, because she doesn't even have the ability to change her future. At that time, it can only be like a fallen leaf with the wind, which can only move with the wind. What is falling? This is falling.
When these things are figured out, song Baoguo doesn't want his daughter to be self indulgent, so he'd better give his daughter a certain limit to see what he can grow.
"Thank you for understanding." At this time, song Yanfei's heart was even more moved. It was the first time in so many years that she heard her father say such good words.
"This family doesn't say two words, they are all one family. What else can we say? Thank you or not. Forget it." When song Baoguo heard this, his father seemed a little strange. Because it seems that in his impression, her daughter has been calling him "old man" for many years. But there are a few things you have to promise me, otherwise I have to go back
"Tell me, if it's reasonable, I'll agree." Song Yanfei said.
"First of all, you should dye your hair black for me. You know, we are all Chinese people. Your yellow hair is really not good-looking, and your face shape is not suitable for yellow hair."
"That's the point. I'm quite in line with it." Ye Shaoqiu nodded and said, "people's high-end products are wine red, that is, when the sun shines, it's like red, but when the sun doesn't shine, it's black. To tell you the truth, your yellow hair in our mouth is called excrement yellow. It's not very good-looking
After hearing this, song Yanfei takes a deep breath and stares at ye Shaoqiu.
When she turned her head and looked at her father again, she could only nod her head.
"Well, I'll go out and dye my hair back later." Song Yanfei said slowly.
"The second thing is, I hope you will never play and have anything to do with those little gangsters again. Your father, after all, I am a mayor, or a public official, but the impact will be very bad at that time. You really seem to have something out there like an uncle's son, which will really hurt me. Then our family will be ruined. "
"Well, from today on, I'll never go to a bar again."
"The third thing is that you should not associate with ye Shaoqiu from today on."
Song Baoguo said this sentence flatly, but it was fried over there.
"Why? Why do you want to stop me from associating with Shaoqiu? Didn't he explain it very clearly just now? Those people should be killed, and they are in self-defense. Legally, he is not at fault. "
Song Yanfei and ye Shaoqiu are just pretending to be lovers. But this boy's character is really very good, and he didn't take advantage of her. She would like to continue to pretend like this. If not, sooner or later he will find out that she is a
At that time, I was in trouble.
Of course, song Yanfei also knows that this matter can't be stopped on paper, and it will be exposed one day. But she doesn't want this day to come so soon. She hopes that she and ye Shaoqiu can continue to pretend. At least she can find out her father's words in advance. Her father and mother can have a psychological preparation.
Otherwise, if the most powerful news broke out, her father and mother would have a heart attack and die. I'm afraid she won't have time to regret it.
Song Baoguo has his own view on this matter.
"Even if the people he killed are all damned people, you should know that he has no reason to kill. Those people should be judged by the law, not by him, right. Ye Shaoqiu did not have the right to deprive them of their lives, so when he killed people at that time, he was just retaliating, not upholding justice. "
"I don't believe that in the whole process of an event, he has the ability to kill and slander the other party. That is to say, he has a chance to show mercy. He can give each other a way to live, especially when they don't have any fighting power. But he used the most extreme way to solve it, which proves that he has a lot of anger and resentment to solve in his mind, and that he is a man of hatred. "
"I believe the boy's mantra should be to let the world watch him, or to revenge on the world sooner or later. If he has a good journey in his career, if not, his anger will accumulate all the way. In the end, it will only explode for the role he can afford, that is, his sick wife or children. I don't want to see you become his wife, and I don't want to see a child born between you and him, so you two have to break up. "
What song Baoguo said at this time was well founded and serious.
Song Baoguo's words also let ye Shaoqiu fall into a period of silence.
He had to admire the mayor. No matter what he said, he had nothing to say.
What song Baoguo said is right. In the whole process, he had many opportunities to go, and he had many opportunities to hurt each other seriously, but don't kill him. Especially Liang miaocai, he has a lot of opportunities, and even takes the initiative to set up a trap to make each other sad.
From ye Shaoqiu's point of view, this guy really committed a terrible crime. He really deserved to die. Because this guy is just a man with a face and a heart of beast. He is extremely vicious. In order to destroy the evidence, he has killed many times and even set up a trap to kill him.
Ye Shaoqiu wants to take his life even if he is not for himself or for others.
But ye Shaoqiu should also know that the most correct and fair way is to still do that, but don't kill him, let him get seriously injured. Even if this guy is blind and deaf, it's hard for him to speak, but he should leave him a life. At least it can give him a chance to be tried, because only when the law kills a person, it is the fairest.
When he heard song Baoguo say that his heart was full of anger and hatred, he was a little confused.
In the beginning, those two killers were his first. But after that killing, there was a faint excitement in his heart, without any fear.
Although the two killers were bitten to death by poisonous snakes, they were also beaten beyond recognition. Otherwise, at the beginning, Ma Chao thought that he was the murderer. It's because it's not just a natural death.
When he saw Liang miaocai's death, ye Shaoqiu had this kind of pleasure, especially when he was designing to kill, especially when he saw that the other party was almost hooked.
At that time, he didn't quite understand it, but it was this feeling that went on. But now, maybe it was because song Baoguo had said that he had too much hatred and tyranny in his heart.
He was looked down upon from an early age, and his grades were not good when he went to school. His family environment was even worse, and he was trampled on by his teachers and classmates all the way. Like all the young people in the world, he always shouts to the sky. Sooner or later, he will show the world how capable he is.
But you have to know that everyone who yells goes the wrong way. They may be engulfed by this kind of anger and end up in jail. Or in this anger, find a other target to vent.
This is what song Baoguo called anger and hatred. Many fast accumulation to a certain extent, will find a more vulnerable target around vent.
It feels like a psycho. Ye Shaoqiu remembers one thing, that is, when Chen Mengfan went shopping with her for the first time. He saw that several local ruffians Jia Yuhu and others hijacked Chen Mengfan. At that time, his mind fell into a state of confusion.
Although he said that he had forgotten what was going on at that time, what he could think of now was that there was a very heavy killing intention in his heart. And this kind of killing will make him become six relatives directly, so he will take revenge on the nearest person around him, or the nearest living body around him.
Even Chen Mengfan, at that time, almost died in his hands.
At that time, Chen Mengfan also asked him if he was insane, which made him confused at all. But now, maybe there was something wrong in his heart.
"It seems that this kind of thing can't be underestimated. Is it really my psychological problem?"
Ye Shaoqiu finally knows why sometimes those people will be confused when they are told what they want by an expert, and they will be directly influenced by the expert, and even can't say a word.
That's because what people say is really what you think in your heart. It's human nature to follow what you think in your heart and try to solve your own problems.
Ye Shaoqiu can't find a reasonable answer now, and is also full of doubts.
"Forget it, just don't think about it. As long as we ask ourselves, we can feel no guilt in our hearts. Besides, who won't be guilty in his life? Just don't let yourself be too guilty before you die. "
Ye Shaoqiu feels that now that he can't think of a reason, he should stop thinking about it. Otherwise, he will become a psychopath.
"I really can't do this. I can do the first two things you gave me, but I can't do the third thing." Song Yanfei said so after pondering for a moment.
"Knowing his own way of doing things, I think his way of doing things is very fair. You can't use your standard to measure others, and others can't let his standard to measure others. Although you think his method is a bit against humanity, how do you know that you can't keep it at the critical moment?? I believe his heart is still the kindest, not so cruel at all. "
For his daughter, he is completely all in one, many things feel that he is good for his daughter. In addition, under long-term observation, he is not very good at expressing his feelings. All day long, he just smiles to welcome people, but there is a real sense of smile in this smile. It is estimated that only he knows.
But when he makes up his mind all day long, he always feels that his decision is right, but he never thinks that his decision is wrong at all.
My daughter broke out completely yesterday, which really made her understand that when she grew up, she could not live under his wings all her life. A daughter can't follow his life rhythm all her life. If she wants to have her own life rhythm, she must have the right to decide her own happiness.
What parents can do is to keep the harbor well. When their daughter is confused, they can give him a direction. When her daughter doesn't stay well outside, they can let him go home and have a good rest. They are the backing of their daughter and can make her live her life.
After planning everything for them in advance, it's like the products produced by workers on the assembly line. It's true that he can complete the tasks of his life, but it's hard to say whether his life is wonderful after he has completed the tasks of his life.
What's more, they know how strong their ability is. They can't cover the sky at all. In the future, all kinds of hardships that the child will encounter in his life can't be completely resisted by the knowledge they taught him. They don't have that great ability either.
When the children just finish what they want step by step, they just get the ability they want the children to grow up, and there is no extra ability. Once you encounter some other problems, it will be a complete collapse. It is not true love, but real harm.
Along the way, song Baoguo met many such people. He once met an old leader who arranged his son well. However, after the old leader retired, the son soon faced the challenge of the offspring of the next leaders.
The man who supports his son can support his son when the old leader is in power. Then it is possible to support other people's sons after the old leader retreats to the second tier, and directly let his son also retreat to the second tier.
Song Baoguo really didn't want his daughter to end up like this.
At that time, I'm afraid my daughter will be ruined all her life, because she doesn't even have the ability to change her future. At that time, it can only be like a fallen leaf with the wind, which can only move with the wind. What is falling? This is falling.
When these things are figured out, song Baoguo doesn't want his daughter to be self indulgent, so he'd better give his daughter a certain limit to see what he can grow.
"Thank you for understanding." At this time, song Yanfei's heart was even more moved. It was the first time in so many years that she heard her father say such good words.
"This family doesn't say two words, they are all one family. What else can we say? Thank you or not. Forget it." When song Baoguo heard this, his father seemed a little strange. Because it seems that in his impression, her daughter has been calling him "old man" for many years. But there are a few things you have to promise me, otherwise I have to go back
"Tell me, if it's reasonable, I'll agree." Song Yanfei said.
"First of all, you should dye your hair black for me. You know, we are all Chinese people. Your yellow hair is really not good-looking, and your face shape is not suitable for yellow hair."
"That's the point. I'm quite in line with it." Ye Shaoqiu nodded and said, "people's high-end products are wine red, that is, when the sun shines, it's like red, but when the sun doesn't shine, it's black. To tell you the truth, your yellow hair in our mouth is called excrement yellow. It's not very good-looking
After hearing this, song Yanfei takes a deep breath and stares at ye Shaoqiu.
When she turned her head and looked at her father again, she could only nod her head.
"Well, I'll go out and dye my hair back later." Song Yanfei said slowly.
"The second thing is, I hope you will never play and have anything to do with those little gangsters again. Your father, after all, I am a mayor, or a public official, but the impact will be very bad at that time. You really seem to have something out there like an uncle's son, which will really hurt me. Then our family will be ruined. "
"Well, from today on, I'll never go to a bar again."
"The third thing is that you should not associate with ye Shaoqiu from today on."
Song Baoguo said this sentence flatly, but it was fried over there.
"Why? Why do you want to stop me from associating with Shaoqiu? Didn't he explain it very clearly just now? Those people should be killed, and they are in self-defense. Legally, he is not at fault. "
Song Yanfei and ye Shaoqiu are just pretending to be lovers. But this boy's character is really very good, and he didn't take advantage of her. She would like to continue to pretend like this. If not, sooner or later he will find out that she is a
At that time, I was in trouble.
Of course, song Yanfei also knows that this matter can't be stopped on paper, and it will be exposed one day. But she doesn't want this day to come so soon. She hopes that she and ye Shaoqiu can continue to pretend. At least she can find out her father's words in advance. Her father and mother can have a psychological preparation.
Otherwise, if the most powerful news broke out, her father and mother would have a heart attack and die. I'm afraid she won't have time to regret it.
Song Baoguo has his own view on this matter.
"Even if the people he killed are all damned people, you should know that he has no reason to kill. Those people should be judged by the law, not by him, right. Ye Shaoqiu did not have the right to deprive them of their lives, so when he killed people at that time, he was just retaliating, not upholding justice. "
"I don't believe that in the whole process of an event, he has the ability to kill and slander the other party. That is to say, he has a chance to show mercy. He can give each other a way to live, especially when they don't have any fighting power. But he used the most extreme way to solve it, which proves that he has a lot of anger and resentment to solve in his mind, and that he is a man of hatred. "
"I believe the boy's mantra should be to let the world watch him, or to revenge on the world sooner or later. If he has a good journey in his career, if not, his anger will accumulate all the way. In the end, it will only explode for the role he can afford, that is, his sick wife or children. I don't want to see you become his wife, and I don't want to see a child born between you and him, so you two have to break up. "
What song Baoguo said at this time was well founded and serious.
Song Baoguo's words also let ye Shaoqiu fall into a period of silence.
He had to admire the mayor. No matter what he said, he had nothing to say.
What song Baoguo said is right. In the whole process, he had many opportunities to go, and he had many opportunities to hurt each other seriously, but don't kill him. Especially Liang miaocai, he has a lot of opportunities, and even takes the initiative to set up a trap to make each other sad.
From ye Shaoqiu's point of view, this guy really committed a terrible crime. He really deserved to die. Because this guy is just a man with a face and a heart of beast. He is extremely vicious. In order to destroy the evidence, he has killed many times and even set up a trap to kill him.
Ye Shaoqiu wants to take his life even if he is not for himself or for others.
But ye Shaoqiu should also know that the most correct and fair way is to still do that, but don't kill him, let him get seriously injured. Even if this guy is blind and deaf, it's hard for him to speak, but he should leave him a life. At least it can give him a chance to be tried, because only when the law kills a person, it is the fairest.
When he heard song Baoguo say that his heart was full of anger and hatred, he was a little confused.
In the beginning, those two killers were his first. But after that killing, there was a faint excitement in his heart, without any fear.
Although the two killers were bitten to death by poisonous snakes, they were also beaten beyond recognition. Otherwise, at the beginning, Ma Chao thought that he was the murderer. It's because it's not just a natural death.
When he saw Liang miaocai's death, ye Shaoqiu had this kind of pleasure, especially when he was designing to kill, especially when he saw that the other party was almost hooked.
At that time, he didn't quite understand it, but it was this feeling that went on. But now, maybe it was because song Baoguo had said that he had too much hatred and tyranny in his heart.
He was looked down upon from an early age, and his grades were not good when he went to school. His family environment was even worse, and he was trampled on by his teachers and classmates all the way. Like all the young people in the world, he always shouts to the sky. Sooner or later, he will show the world how capable he is.
But you have to know that everyone who yells goes the wrong way. They may be engulfed by this kind of anger and end up in jail. Or in this anger, find a other target to vent.
This is what song Baoguo called anger and hatred. Many fast accumulation to a certain extent, will find a more vulnerable target around vent.
It feels like a psycho. Ye Shaoqiu remembers one thing, that is, when Chen Mengfan went shopping with her for the first time. He saw that several local ruffians Jia Yuhu and others hijacked Chen Mengfan. At that time, his mind fell into a state of confusion.
Although he said that he had forgotten what was going on at that time, what he could think of now was that there was a very heavy killing intention in his heart. And this kind of killing will make him become six relatives directly, so he will take revenge on the nearest person around him, or the nearest living body around him.
Even Chen Mengfan, at that time, almost died in his hands.
At that time, Chen Mengfan also asked him if he was insane, which made him confused at all. But now, maybe there was something wrong in his heart.
"It seems that this kind of thing can't be underestimated. Is it really my psychological problem?"
Ye Shaoqiu finally knows why sometimes those people will be confused when they are told what they want by an expert, and they will be directly influenced by the expert, and even can't say a word.
That's because what people say is really what you think in your heart. It's human nature to follow what you think in your heart and try to solve your own problems.
Ye Shaoqiu can't find a reasonable answer now, and is also full of doubts.
"Forget it, just don't think about it. As long as we ask ourselves, we can feel no guilt in our hearts. Besides, who won't be guilty in his life? Just don't let yourself be too guilty before you die. "
Ye Shaoqiu feels that now that he can't think of a reason, he should stop thinking about it. Otherwise, he will become a psychopath.
"I really can't do this. I can do the first two things you gave me, but I can't do the third thing." Song Yanfei said so after pondering for a moment.
"Knowing his own way of doing things, I think his way of doing things is very fair. You can't use your standard to measure others, and others can't let his standard to measure others. Although you think his method is a bit against humanity, how do you know that you can't keep it at the critical moment?? I believe his heart is still the kindest, not so cruel at all. "