Chapter 1208
After two days of suffering, Yi decided to break up with Ou Jing.
After breakfast, Yi Ren didn't go to work with Ou Jing. He just took him to the elevator and told him, "don't be so busy that you forget to eat. Nothing is more important than good health.
You can't make enough money.
Also don't aggrieve yourself, sometimes appropriate capricious, there is no bad.
Follow your heart and do what you really want to do
"Yi Ren, what's the matter with you?" Ou Jing asked, looking at her in a sad way.
"Ou Jing, I've thought about it, we are not suitable,
even if we barely get together, we won't be happy in the future,
let's break up!"
When she said the last sentence, she raised her head and looked directly into Ou Jing's eyes. She was so brave and never looked back.
The smile on ou Jing's face suddenly froze,
"still angry about what happened that day!"
Yi Ren shook his head,
"that may be the fuse, but it's not the essence.
What's more, it's okay for you to help your friends. If anything happens to Yuzhi, I will not look back! "
"In that case, why did we break up?"
"I understand that you may not have done anything to apologize to me.
I'm breaking up with you. It's not that I doubt that you have any lingering feelings for Qingying.
It's because we don't see eye to eye,
it has nothing to do with right or wrong.
It's just that we see things differently.
For you, as long as your body does not betray, it is not betrayal.
For me, spiritual betrayal is just as terrible, even more terrible.
This kind of mental infidelity, you may not be aware of.
That's why you think there's no problem between us.
In fact, this is the most serious problem.
Because our attitudes to things are very different.
There is a question, which is ridiculous and realistic.
If I fell into the water with Qing Ying at the same time, who would you save?
Now you are rational, you may tell me that you will save me first, because I am your girlfriend, because we are ready to get married.
But you will choose Qing Ying for your sensibility -
Ou Jing, listen to me, or I'm afraid I won't have the chance to tell you this in the future.
There are some things that you may not be aware of, but in fact, you are doing all the time.
For example, have you ever thought about taking care of Qing Ying? Would I misunderstand you?
If I may misunderstand, why do you insist on doing so?
Because in your subconscious, I think my misunderstanding is unreasonable.
It's reasonable for you to help Qingying.
You see, in your subconscious, you've excused yourself from your behavior and biased towards the other side.
This may not be your fault, or the same problem. We have different attitudes towards things.
You don't think there is any problem, but for me, it is already a fatal problem.
Do you think it is necessary for us to go on like this? "
"It's necessary. I love you and you love me. We are ready to be together for a lifetime. There is no way to leave each other." Ou Jing holds Yi Ren's shoulder and looks down at her.
"No, if I have to struggle in a tangled and painful marriage for the rest of my life, I would rather live a free life on my own. Even if I just leave you, it will make me very painful. " Yiren shook his head and answered firmly.
If I need to struggle in the tangle and pain for the rest of my life, I would rather live a free life!
That day when we parted, Yi Ren told Ou Jing like this.
With a kind of determination to burn the boat without hesitation.
Even if the heart beat too fast to load, even if you just close your eyes, tears will flow down.
She is still so persistent.
She doesn't want an incomplete love, not even 99 points.
For her, the premise of marriage must be love.
Even her idealization is the bottom line of her marriage.
So if she can't stick to the bottom line, she'd rather be single.
Even if you are alone for a lifetime.
She continued to work in European style.
Ou Jing told her that he would not disturb her, and the European style needs talents like her to let her not resign in order to avoid him.
The Iraqi did not respond at that time and did not submit his resignation later.
Her life seems to return to the initial calm, in the finance department, quietly work, low-key with invisible general.
Yuzhi also knows that she broke up with oujing. She was shocked."Aren't you ready to get married? Why did you break up all of a sudden? "
"Maybe the closer we get married, the more we find that we are not suitable for each other." The Iraqis avoided the heavy and took the light.
"Seriously, if you don't want to say it, I won't force you.
I know, you've always been rational and know what you want.
But no matter how rational you are, you are also a person!
People are always vulnerable and make mistakes afterwards Yu Zhi sighed and arrived.
"Yes, as long as it's human, there's always something fragile and wrong." I also followed with emotion.
"Did he do something sorry for you?" Yu Zhi asked again.
"Don't ask, just know that we are not suitable to break up together." Yi Ren should arrive with a faint smile.
"No man is a good thing!"
"How can you suddenly be so arbitrary and kill all the men with one stick.
It's not what you think.
I just don't think our three outlooks are very consistent. Later, I thought it was not suitable and broke up.
You know I'm not one to force myself. " Yi Ren said with a smile.
"You think I just met you!
Don't think you smile so brightly and beautifully in front of me, I don't know you are bleeding in your heart.
I'm ready to get married. You tell me that the Three Outlooks don't agree.
You treat me as a child!
But since you don't want to say it, forget it. I won't ask.
You don't have to make excuses!
I'll treat you to what you want to eat in the evening! "
"since you're going to treat me, I'd like to eat that Michelin 3-star restaurant in the evening,"
, "you are too ruthless. Take the opportunity to kill me!
There is a head of injustice and a owner of debt, "Yu Zhi protested.
"Forget it, we'd better eat a bowl of eighteen yuan noodles." Yi Ren said with a smile.
"Well, well, you beat me.
It's rare to invite you once.
Michelin is Michelin. I brush my card today It's rare for Yu Zhi to be so forthright with a wave of his hand.
After breakfast, Yi Ren didn't go to work with Ou Jing. He just took him to the elevator and told him, "don't be so busy that you forget to eat. Nothing is more important than good health.
You can't make enough money.
Also don't aggrieve yourself, sometimes appropriate capricious, there is no bad.
Follow your heart and do what you really want to do
"Yi Ren, what's the matter with you?" Ou Jing asked, looking at her in a sad way.
"Ou Jing, I've thought about it, we are not suitable,
even if we barely get together, we won't be happy in the future,
let's break up!"
When she said the last sentence, she raised her head and looked directly into Ou Jing's eyes. She was so brave and never looked back.
The smile on ou Jing's face suddenly froze,
"still angry about what happened that day!"
Yi Ren shook his head,
"that may be the fuse, but it's not the essence.
What's more, it's okay for you to help your friends. If anything happens to Yuzhi, I will not look back! "
"In that case, why did we break up?"
"I understand that you may not have done anything to apologize to me.
I'm breaking up with you. It's not that I doubt that you have any lingering feelings for Qingying.
It's because we don't see eye to eye,
it has nothing to do with right or wrong.
It's just that we see things differently.
For you, as long as your body does not betray, it is not betrayal.
For me, spiritual betrayal is just as terrible, even more terrible.
This kind of mental infidelity, you may not be aware of.
That's why you think there's no problem between us.
In fact, this is the most serious problem.
Because our attitudes to things are very different.
There is a question, which is ridiculous and realistic.
If I fell into the water with Qing Ying at the same time, who would you save?
Now you are rational, you may tell me that you will save me first, because I am your girlfriend, because we are ready to get married.
But you will choose Qing Ying for your sensibility -
Ou Jing, listen to me, or I'm afraid I won't have the chance to tell you this in the future.
There are some things that you may not be aware of, but in fact, you are doing all the time.
For example, have you ever thought about taking care of Qing Ying? Would I misunderstand you?
If I may misunderstand, why do you insist on doing so?
Because in your subconscious, I think my misunderstanding is unreasonable.
It's reasonable for you to help Qingying.
You see, in your subconscious, you've excused yourself from your behavior and biased towards the other side.
This may not be your fault, or the same problem. We have different attitudes towards things.
You don't think there is any problem, but for me, it is already a fatal problem.
Do you think it is necessary for us to go on like this? "
"It's necessary. I love you and you love me. We are ready to be together for a lifetime. There is no way to leave each other." Ou Jing holds Yi Ren's shoulder and looks down at her.
"No, if I have to struggle in a tangled and painful marriage for the rest of my life, I would rather live a free life on my own. Even if I just leave you, it will make me very painful. " Yiren shook his head and answered firmly.
If I need to struggle in the tangle and pain for the rest of my life, I would rather live a free life!
That day when we parted, Yi Ren told Ou Jing like this.
With a kind of determination to burn the boat without hesitation.
Even if the heart beat too fast to load, even if you just close your eyes, tears will flow down.
She is still so persistent.
She doesn't want an incomplete love, not even 99 points.
For her, the premise of marriage must be love.
Even her idealization is the bottom line of her marriage.
So if she can't stick to the bottom line, she'd rather be single.
Even if you are alone for a lifetime.
She continued to work in European style.
Ou Jing told her that he would not disturb her, and the European style needs talents like her to let her not resign in order to avoid him.
The Iraqi did not respond at that time and did not submit his resignation later.
Her life seems to return to the initial calm, in the finance department, quietly work, low-key with invisible general.
Yuzhi also knows that she broke up with oujing. She was shocked."Aren't you ready to get married? Why did you break up all of a sudden? "
"Maybe the closer we get married, the more we find that we are not suitable for each other." The Iraqis avoided the heavy and took the light.
"Seriously, if you don't want to say it, I won't force you.
I know, you've always been rational and know what you want.
But no matter how rational you are, you are also a person!
People are always vulnerable and make mistakes afterwards Yu Zhi sighed and arrived.
"Yes, as long as it's human, there's always something fragile and wrong." I also followed with emotion.
"Did he do something sorry for you?" Yu Zhi asked again.
"Don't ask, just know that we are not suitable to break up together." Yi Ren should arrive with a faint smile.
"No man is a good thing!"
"How can you suddenly be so arbitrary and kill all the men with one stick.
It's not what you think.
I just don't think our three outlooks are very consistent. Later, I thought it was not suitable and broke up.
You know I'm not one to force myself. " Yi Ren said with a smile.
"You think I just met you!
Don't think you smile so brightly and beautifully in front of me, I don't know you are bleeding in your heart.
I'm ready to get married. You tell me that the Three Outlooks don't agree.
You treat me as a child!
But since you don't want to say it, forget it. I won't ask.
You don't have to make excuses!
I'll treat you to what you want to eat in the evening! "
"since you're going to treat me, I'd like to eat that Michelin 3-star restaurant in the evening,"
, "you are too ruthless. Take the opportunity to kill me!
There is a head of injustice and a owner of debt, "Yu Zhi protested.
"Forget it, we'd better eat a bowl of eighteen yuan noodles." Yi Ren said with a smile.
"Well, well, you beat me.
It's rare to invite you once.
Michelin is Michelin. I brush my card today It's rare for Yu Zhi to be so forthright with a wave of his hand.